Feast of the Holy Family (Year B)

Feast of the Holy Family   December 31, 2023

Sirach 3:2-6, 12-14;   Colossians 3:12-21;   Matthew 2:13-15, 19-23 or Luke 2, 22-40

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A little boy greets his father as he returns from work with a question: “Daddy, how much do you make an hour?” The father is surprised and says: “Look, son, don’t bother me now, I’m tired.” “But Daddy, just tell me please! How much do you make an hour?” the boy insists. The father finally gives up and replies: “Twenty dollars.” “Okay, Daddy,” the boy continues, “Could you loan me ten dollars?” The father yells at him: “So that is what you want. Now, go to sleep and don’t bother me anymore!” At night the father thinks over what he said and starts feeling guilty. Maybe his son needed to buy something and so goes to his son's room. “Are you asleep, son?” asks the father. “No, Daddy. Why?” replies the boy. “Here's the money you asked for earlier,” the father said. “Thanks, Daddy!” replies the boy and receives the money. The he reaches under his pillow and brings out some more money. “Now I have enough! Now I have twenty dollars!” says the boy to his father, “Daddy, could you sell me one hour of your time?” The father cried and hugged him promising to spend time daily with his son.

All the scripture readings of today reflect on aspects of family including the duties and blessings that come about as a result of the faithful living of family life. In the book of Genesis we read that God created man in his image and likeness and placed him in a family. To understand what a family is we must come to know the life of God in the Trinity which is a family.  Again God expresses his relationship with human persons in terms of covenants which are family bonds. He lived at Nazareth with his parents to give us an understanding of a true family life.  Here God himself becomes a model for us so that we may truly come to know the real family life.   Today we hold the family of Nazareth as an example to all Christians how a family life should be and thus truly relate ourselves to God who is a family. In the Gospel we have the protective role of Joseph as he takes Mary and Jesus to Egypt.

The Holy Family's journey echoes the complexities of modern family life. Mary and Joseph, entrusted with nurturing the Son of God, faced hardships and uncertainties, yet their unwavering faith anchored their journey. Their resilience teaches us that family isn’t immune to challenges, but rather it's a sanctuary where faith and love endure trials.

Mary embodies profound faith and unconditional acceptance of God's plan. Her trust serves as a beacon, guiding families to embrace uncertainties with open hearts. Joseph, known for his righteousness and steadfastness, portrays the virtues of humility and commitment. His unwavering support of Mary and Jesus models the strength found in selfless devotion within families.

Their pivotal role in raising Jesus emphasizes the importance of parental guidance. They provided a nurturing environment for Jesus to grow physically, spiritually, and emotionally. In today's world, where distractions abound, their example reminds us of the significance of fostering spiritual growth within our families.

The Holy Family's journey to Egypt teaches us about resilience and adaptability. They faced displacement, showing how families overcome adversities through unity and resilience. This resonates deeply in an era marked by constant change, urging families to remain united amidst the storms that life brings.

Moreover, Jesus' obedience to His earthly parents underlines the essence of respect and obedience within family dynamics. His willingness to learn from Joseph’s trade and Mary’s teachings illustrates the value of honoring and learning from one another within the family unit.

As we commemorate the Feast of the Holy Family, it’s an opportune moment for introspection. Families today navigate a myriad of challenges—busy schedules, societal pressures, and individual pursuits. Yet, within these complexities lies the opportunity to cultivate bonds strengthened by love, faith, and mutual respect.

This feast calls us to reflect on our roles within our families. Are we embodying the virtues of love, patience, and forgiveness? Are we fostering an environment where each member feels valued and supported? Are we, like the Holy Family, seeking divine guidance in our family journey?

Let this occasion be a reminder to treasure and nurture our families. May we draw inspiration from the Holy Family’s example as we strive to create sanctuaries of love, faith, and understanding within our own homes. Let us embrace the teachings of Mary, Joseph, and Jesus, allowing their virtues to illuminate our path toward stronger, more loving families.

Let us remember that the Feast of the Holy Family isn’t merely a commemoration; it’s an invitation to emulate their virtues and infuse our families with the grace and love that defined the Holy Family’s timeless bond.

Happy Feast